Thank you for your message At this present time I feel the need from the other to validate me. Even when they are in constant contact with me, I still feel that I am not enough. I've noticed this happens in all my LOVE relationships. At times the feelings are very difficult to manage..they make me very restless and a sense of abandonment/ rejection . I listen to Gabor Mate where he mentions " Disconection " from the true self. When I hear this I wonder whether he is making reference to the "dark night of the soul"
When I have a love relationship , I feel I am having it through a projection of mind...there seems to be a neediness, as if to say ..." Love me , want me"
I like to have an online discussion on this topic when you are able too
Yes, after reading it over and over again, it goes to show how we identify with our thoughts and ideas from our limited awareness ( consciousness) based on life long conditioning.
The struggle that I seem to get wrapped up in, is that when awareness seems to be limited; triggers in me a ' field day' of rage and anger and wanting to destroy the love object completely and my mind keeps ruminating with this thought causing me great suffering and feeling ' Cut off'
Thank you for your message At this present time I feel the need from the other to validate me. Even when they are in constant contact with me, I still feel that I am not enough. I've noticed this happens in all my LOVE relationships. At times the feelings are very difficult to manage..they make me very restless and a sense of abandonment/ rejection . I listen to Gabor Mate where he mentions " Disconection " from the true self. When I hear this I wonder whether he is making reference to the "dark night of the soul"
When I have a love relationship , I feel I am having it through a projection of mind...there seems to be a neediness, as if to say ..." Love me , want me"
I like to have an online discussion on this topic when you are able too
Many thanks
Thank you for your answer .
Yes, after reading it over and over again, it goes to show how we identify with our thoughts and ideas from our limited awareness ( consciousness) based on life long conditioning.
The struggle that I seem to get wrapped up in, is that when awareness seems to be limited; triggers in me a ' field day' of rage and anger and wanting to destroy the love object completely and my mind keeps ruminating with this thought causing me great suffering and feeling ' Cut off'
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